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Meeting men over 40 can be a bit frightening at
first. We all tend to get a bit set in our ways as we get older
and it is easy to fall into the same old patterns of slippers
by the fire with a DVD and a take-away.
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Meeting Men over 40
Most men over 40 are honest, decent and probably
just as nervous as you are. Of course it can be a bit frightening
meeting new people for the first time. They feel the same, so
make a joke about it.
Remember when you were a shy, spotty teenager
going on your first date? I expect that you told your mum or
dad where you were going and what time you would be back. It
is still a good idea when going on a first date to tell a friend
or relative where you are going and to follow these guidelines...
Men Over 40 dating
tips...
1. If you haven't driven yourself to the pre-arranged
meeting place, take your mobile phone with you and pre-enter
a local taxi telephone number beforehand. Then if you want to
make a quick exit you can ring for a taxi while in the loo to
save any embarrassment. Be kind though - See number 5 below.
2. Meet in a public place, such as a bar, a restaurant
or a cafe. This makes it easier to extract yourself if you feel
that you have made a mistake in meeting someone. If you feel
especially nervous or wary, perhaps you could arrange to have
a friend or relative sitting discreetly in the background. Their
opinion may be valuable and you could always express surprise
at meeting them and introduce them to your date.
3. Don't rush things. It takes a while to get
to know someone, so don't rush in too quickly. Try to establish
a casual friendship before considering romance. This will give
you time to get an idea about the other person's reliability
and honesty. Remember too that the other person is probably
also a bit nervous and cautious, so try not to rush them. Even
if you fancy them like mad as soon as you meet - keep a little
cool and let things develop at their own pace.
4. Check out your date for your own peace of mind.
Get a phone number at home or at work before you meet, if you
can. Give the number to a friend or relative before you go.
(Some people are married and still dating and we cannot
weed them out for you).
5. Be honest (but kind). If you really don't feel
that there is any future in meeting again, gently tell your
date, but thank them for the opportunity of meeting them and
wish them well for the future. You will still have had an outing,
some fun and some dating "practice". We can't all
"click" with everyone. Don't be dishonest and say
you will be in touch if you don't mean it. Kindness costs nothing.
6. Safe sex. (Yes, even the over 40's sometimes
still have sex - despite what our children think). Don't rush
into anything that you are not ready for, but when a relationship
becomes physical, make sure that you practice safe sex by always
using a condom for any penetrative sexual activity. Don't take
any risks with your health. It only takes one occasion with
an infected partner to ruin your life.
7. Be brave. Most people are honest, decent and
nice. The risk of meeting a "bunny boiler" or psychopath
are very slight. Take sensible precautions (see above) then
just get out there and have some FUN! If nothing else, you will
have had an outing, some laughter and hopefully, made a new
friend.
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